Resilient By Design

Resilient by Design is a journal of exploration into the inherent resilience of the world around us—how systems naturally adapt, regenerate, and thrive by design. It invites you to uncover these awe-inspiring patterns of existence and rewrite our personal and collective narratives with wisdom, strength, and intention.

Small Shifts, Big Ripples.

Articles by Pillar

Everything is connected.

Everything is connected.

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The Power of Mindful Breathing in Conflict

When conflict triggers stress, the amygdala—the brain's center for emotional processing—activates, often overriding the rational capabilities of the prefrontal cortex. This is why arguments can escalate quickly, with words spoken or actions taken in the heat of the moment that we later regret.

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Setting and Respecting Boundaries: Building Healthier Connections

At their core, boundaries are not just for self-preservation; they are tools for cultivating connection. By setting clear limits, we prevent misunderstandings, reduce resentment, and foster open communication. Healthy boundaries ensure that relationships are built on mutual respect rather than unspoken expectations or unsustainable sacrifices.

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Appreciating Diversity and Building Inclusion

From cultural traditions and personal experiences to the countless ways humans express themselves, diversity enriches our collective story. Yet, creating true inclusion remains a challenge. It requires us to move beyond surface-level acknowledgments of difference and embrace the deeper work of understanding, empathy, and meaningful connection.

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Repairing Relationships Post-Conflict: Building Bridges Through Mindfulness and Action

The first step in repairing any relationship is acknowledging the harm caused. This requires stepping outside of our perspective to understand the impact of our actions or words on the other person. Often, the instinct to defend ourselves can overshadow the need to listen. However, acknowledgment isn’t about assigning blame; it’s about recognizing the lived experience of the other person.

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